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it's turkey time

turkey stroganoff

leftovers never tasted so good

the holidays in one bite

cranberry butter cups

I regret nothing

everybody lies about

caramelized onion dip

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Pork Burgers with Pineapple Salsa

It’s been a bit quiet around here lately while I got everything ready for the release of Nourish: The Paleo Healing Cookbook. It’s crazy to think that in three weeks time, it will be in stores! This week I finally got to hold a finished copy in my hands: it’s amazing to think that a […]

Avocado Watermelon Bites {AIP}

This post was included in Thank Your Body Thursday! Woot! Welcome to part 3 of “how do two people eat an entire watermelon before it goes bad”? The answer? Make fancy watermelon bites! Or canapés if you’re getting really fancy! This post contains affiliate links. Read what that means to you here. It’s quite the […]

Calamari Ceviche

An ode to Calamari… It appears I’m kind of having a not-quite-committed yet almost-serious kind of relationship with calamari. I mean, this is going to be the third calamari recipe I’ve shared with you guys in the last 3 months! Wow! First there was this Calamari, Kale & Kalamata Olive Salad, then there was this plate […]

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Before & after // I didn’t take any photos for a $Before & after // I didn’t take any photos for a year. Sobering-up-me was a being of fractures. Sharp edges that didn’t fit anywhere, no matter how many times I rearranged or reimagined the pieces. People seem to think (or I apparently assumed) that becoming sober brings an automatic sense of the whole, of coming back together. That it’s as simple as taking away perhaps the only thing that was, in the strangest sense, holding them together in the first place. Magically yielding a version of the ‘before’ that is not yet broken in the ‘after’. Maybe that’s true for some people. But sobering me was an agonizing act of disassembly. It was heading back to cuckoo land and knowing that this time, the nest was never mine. It was realizing that I had always known I was the interloper, pushing others out of the nest to stay alive in a constant state of mimicry that became its own death anyway. Sobering-me wondered if her old creativity was another act of imitation pushing her ever closer to the edge. Hi, I’m the cuckoo, it’s me. When you’ve never known who you are, how can there be anything familiar to fly back to? For some, sobriety might be a reclamation, but mine has been a kind of excavation. Part extrication, part excommunication. I wasn’t yet a year sober when I picked up my camera again, my first foray into what may or may not be left behind. I picked something simple, a cozy soup as a placeholder to practice camera settings & styling again. But that March-cold light wasn’t what I wanted to see. I used to feel like editing photos after the fact was about ‘fixing’ them; that it was about finding what was ‘wrong’ with what I’d made in the first place. The same way that part of me wanted to portray my self-portrait last post as a sober ‘after’ without acknowledging the ‘before’. As though the after is a new version of me, as fixed as my stare. But any after cradles it’s before at it’s heart. So, just as I’ve warmed & brightened this photo to create the sense of contentment that I wanted to see, I’ve shown you the before, too. I can’t have one without the other. There’s no sobriety without what came before. No thawing tenderness that doesn’t follow the cold.$

Eighteen months of sobriety have me seeing myself,

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